No one should face a pregnancy alone. Whether it’s expected or not, you need support from others, especially your partner. After all, you got into this situation together, and you were likely hoping to work through it together.
If your partner isn’t supportive, he may be pushing you to get an abortion. Perhaps he’s worried about finances or doesn’t want the responsibility. He may be threatening to leave you if you don’t do what he says.
You’re not alone. The team at Elevate is here for you. We can help you confirm your pregnancy, review your options, and determine your next step. We also offer free classes on building healthy relationships and communication.
Help is just a phone call away. Contact us today at 320-252-4150 to get the support you need.
Have You Confirmed Your Pregnancy?
It may seem strange to ask if you’ve confirmed your pregnancy, but miscarriages are more common than you may think. The best way to confirm a pregnancy is with another pregnancy test and an ultrasound.
Experts estimate that as many as 20% of pregnancies end in a miscarriage. The number could be higher because many miscarriages occur before a woman knows she’s pregnant. You can get a positive pregnancy test days or even weeks after a miscarriage because it takes your body time to return to pre-pregnancy hormone levels.
Schedule an appointment with Elevate Pregnancy and Family Resource Center to confirm your pregnancy.
Did You Know You Have Options?
Your three options include placing your child for adoption, choosing to parent, or having an abortion. Don’t let anyone force you to choose any of these options if it’s not what you want.
Placing Your Child for Adoption
The adoption process has changed dramatically from what it was only a few decades ago. Today, the expectant mother, or birth mother, makes all of the decisions.
She selects the adoptive couple who will raise her child and determines the amount of contact she wishes to have with the family once her child is placed with them.
Making an adoption plan isn’t easy, but the hardest choices often turn out to be the best. We can discuss the adoption process with you and refer you to reputable agencies who can provide more information.
Choosing to Parent
Single parenting is challenging, but many resources can help. At Elevate, we offer a program called Stepping Stones that provides education, a life coach, and access to necessary items for your baby.
We’ll also provide referrals for community support. Make an appointment with one of our caring team members. We’ll talk about your situation and the possibility of parenting.
Having an Abortion
No one has the legal authority to force you to have an abortion. You and your partner need to learn about the procedures, side effects, and potential complications. An abortion is a serious medical procedure that can affect you physically and emotionally.
We’ll provide factual, medically based information to help you make an informed decision.
Dealing With an Unsupportive Partner
Ultimately, how to handle your pregnancy is your decision and yours alone. You deserve the support of others. If you’ve recently told your partner about the pregnancy, give him time to get over the shock.
Look for support in other places, if necessary. Confide in family members or close friends, or consider professional counseling. If you feel threatened by your partner, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE for free 24/7 help.
Let Elevate Pregnancy and Family Resource Center be the safe space you need. We’ll offer emotional and physical support without judgment, no matter what choice you make.
Reach out to us today. You can call or text us at (320) 252-4150 or fill out our confidential online contact form. We’re here for you.
Elevate Pregnancy and Family Resource Center does not provide or refer for abortions.