Discovering you are unexpectedly pregnant can raise many questions, especially if you know you’re not ready to be a parent yet. If you’re unsure what to do next, understanding your options can help you move forward with clarity.
Two common alternatives to parenting are abortion and adoption. Here’s what to know about each option so you can make a decision that reflects your values, priorities, and situation.
Considering Abortion
Abortion is a serious medical decision that can affect your physical and emotional health. There are two main types of abortion: medical and surgical.
- Medical abortion involves taking a combination of drugs (commonly mifepristone and misoprostol) to end a pregnancy. It’s FDA-approved through 10 weeks of gestation. Possible risks include heavy bleeding, incomplete abortion, infection, fever, and digestive discomfort.
- Surgical abortion typically takes place later in pregnancy and uses instruments, suction, or drugs to end the pregnancy. Risks include uterine perforation, cervical injury, infection, and scarring.
Considering how this choice could impact your emotional well-being is important. Some women report feelings of grief, regret, or other mental health challenges after an abortion experience.
Considering Adoption
Adoption involves carrying your pregnancy to term and placing your child with another family, but it doesn’t mean giving up your voice in the process.
Modern adoption is flexible and shaped around your preferences. You can choose the adoptive family, determine how much contact you want, and receive ongoing support from adoption counselors. Whether you want an open, semi-open, or closed arrangement, the goal is to respect your wishes and create a plan that works for you.
While adoption isn’t easy, many women find comfort in knowing their child will grow up in a loving, supportive home.
Talk with Someone You Can Trust
At Elevate, we’re here to support you with no pressure or judgment. We offer free lab-quality pregnancy testing and information on all your options so you can take the next step with greater understanding and peace.
Make a private appointment today to talk one-on-one with someone who cares.
Elevate does not provide or refer for abortions.
All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.